What do you spend most of your time thinking about? I bet you don’t even know, or maybe you’ve never given it much thought. Big Mistake. You have about 60,000 thought per day and 95% of your thoughts are repeated, and what’s worse is 4 out of 5 of those thoughts are negative.
Your thoughts are influenced by peers, world views, culture, the media religion and social expectation. They determine 95% of the emotions you experience every day. Most of our thoughts are automatic and habitual and control your pain, pleasure belief and values.
Just as gravity makes no distinction or judgments as to WHO it works for, Universal Laws operate with the same precise and absolute fashion. What you think about influences the actions you do and what you become. Your thinking creates a dominate thought and pattern. What you think about, emotionalize and visualize continuously grows in your reality.
So now that you know how your thoughts create your reality lets take a look at how you can transform your negative thoughts and attitude. So the good news is most of your negative attitude stems from the 95% of repeated negative thoughts. The bad news is that you’ve had these thoughts so often and for so long you actually believe they’re real, not just on the mindset level but on a cellular level. Read the rest of this entry »
This topic is something that comes up all the time. Why isn’t this working for me I feel like such a failure? Failure is a temporary inevitable situation when you taking a risk or learning a new skill. Think about it, when you first learned to drive a car no one expected you to do it perfectly the first time you sat behind a wheel. In fact, you didn’t expect to be perfect either. Why is it we have become so hard on ourselves now?
So what has happened along the way that we believe we cannot fail or if we do it’s the end of the road. We have become a society obsessed with perfectionism and with instant gratification and over complicating situations. Fear of failure is rampant. There are entire books, websites, and programs designed around those three little words “fear of failure”. You’re afraid to make mistake, or are so easily overwhelmed when they happen you become afraid to take risks. Read the rest of this entry »
Our emotions play an integral part in our lives whether it is home and hearth, work, or our business life. If our emotions are out of whack, then the rest of our lives will be out of whack too. This can weigh on your life in many ways, including making us look older, feel older, and go through our days weighted down with the problems of the world. The way to let go of some of this is to give yourself an emotional facelift.
We can do this by changing how we think about things. If you are prone to negative thoughts it is important to change your negative thoughts to positive ones, you can do this by first identifying negative thoughts and then by: Read the rest of this entry »
If you want to wow your clients, and make their day, you can do that with extraordinary care. Your willingness to make your clients a priority, do what needs to be done (and then some), while demonstrating trustworthiness is a vital component to the success of your business. If you don’t provide exceptional client care, are often late completing projects, and don’t deliver what you say you will, you’ll lose those clients.
Make client care a priority. After all, without clients, you do not have a business. You’re clients aren’t there for you, you are there for them. You provide a product or service for them, and without them, you don’t exist. Therefore, good customer service is imperative for the life of your business. Read the rest of this entry »
According to Wikipedia, “Gratitude, thankfulness, gratefulness, or appreciation is a feeling, emotion or attitude in acknowledgement of a benefit that one has received or will receive.”
Gratitude is one of the most powerful and transformational energies in the world. It can be expressed, as the definition explains, in many ways via your attitude and your actions. It can also be experienced and demonstrated both before and after you receive the benefit. Therefore, you can experience gratitude for something that will come, even if it’s not here yet.
If you learn to express gratitude internally and externally, you’ll fill your life with abundance. Abundance can mean many things such as money, love, or however you define the life of abundance that you want. If you desire abundance in your business, a spirit of gratitude will grow your business, but it will also improve your life in other ways, including personally. Read the rest of this entry »
Running a stress-free business seems to be something of a fantasy on the surface, but if you really delve into the idea, you will find out that it is completely possible to run a stress-free home business. A lot of this has to do with your own personality, needs, habits, and reactions to situations. If you are a high stress person it will take practice to run a stress-free business, but you can do it. If you are laid back and the type of person to avoid stress, you may find yourself not running a business at all, but simply avoiding it. However, you too can learn to run a stress-free business. Read the rest of this entry »
Your life is full of moments of choice. You can respond to each moment based on old patterns, old stories, (conscious or unconscious) or you can choose to react from a new place based on freedom from the past. You can make new choices that make you feel alive and free. It’s your choice.
The old story I’m talking about is not the fairy tale story your mother told you before bed at night, but it’s the old story we drag around like a huge bag of useless rocks. Keeping this story alive drains your life force, your energy, and your very happiness. Keeping this story going allows you to wallow and remain a victim. If you choose, and it is a choice, to let go of this story you can craft a new life based on triumph, instead of victimhood. Read the rest of this entry »
Running a business from home automatically invites several types of distractions. Aside from the normal distractions of running a household, you may also have a full time job that you must go to prior to working your business. If you want to have a successful business, you’ll need to create sacred time for your business.
Time that you treat as the most important and valuable in your day or week. This is time you don’t juggle around for anything but emergencies. Read the rest of this entry »
Stress prevents you to be from performing at your peak. Tackling stress is essential to ensuring the success and well-being of both you and your business. Learning to say no and to form a mental sanctuary are just 2 ways to get your stress under control. So let’s get down to the business of de-stressology and improve peak performance. Read the rest of this entry »
Are you feeling a bit squeamish about marketing? Maybe you’re feeling a bit like you are pushing instead of attracting. And if you are pushing… you’ll likely to have a shortage of clients. That adds up to more month then paying clients. Not a good position to be in.
So here’s a question only you can answer. What’s the fire behind your business?
Make marketing a priority? Read the rest of this entry »